Vendor Spotlight: Bethany Commemory Fine Art

This is a very unique kind of wedding vendor post and I am so excited to introduce something so special to everyone! Bethany is an incredible artist who creates timeless pieces to commemorate a very special part of your wedding- the dress! She works hard to create unique pieces that are personal to you and your personality and style through a collage of mixed-media on canvas. It is evident through her paintings that she is so passionate about capturing the most special memories.  Check out her interview as well as some of her work below!

Also, don't forget to stop by her Facebook page and website!
                                                                                                                                                              Cat or Dog? Dogs: Hendrix and Jagger 
                                                                                                                                                      Twilight or Harry Potter? Twilight


Mac or PC? Both

Sweet or Salty? Both, one bite after the other ;-)

Beer or Wine? Beer

Mountains or Beach? Mountains until I can get back in my bikini

Neat or Messy? Neat

What is the last book you read? The Help 

Most embarrassing moment? The latest one - Not knowing who the owners of a prestigious bridal salon were at a recent event they hosted and asked them, "Do you work here?"

Favorite sports team? The New York Giants

What was the last movie you went to see? Crazy Stupid Love

Who would play you in a movie? Charlize Theron 

What is your favorite drink? Cucumber water

What is in your refrigerator right now? Greek yogurt and cherries

What is your favorite place to eat? Sushi, can't narrow it down to one

What TV reality show or game show would you go on? Big Brother

How many pairs of shoes do you own? 50+

Where did you grow up? Montville, NJ

Where have you gone to school? The University of Arizona
  
What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Do what is important to you and your fiancé. Give it personal touches special to the both of you. Don't worry so much about traditions - make your own.

What is your best marriage advice? Treat your husband today as if he were gone forever tomorrow.

One of your favorite wedding moments? Seeing my husband for the first time before the ceremony. It was the most calming and happy moment.

Anything else we should know? Some tips for working with me, it's easier than one might think. A bride, groom, mom, future mother-in-law, maid-of-honor/wedding party (my paintings make a great gift) just need to provide the following items to make the painting as special as possible -
- Photos of the dress
- Wedding/favorite colors
- Names and wedding date
- Important/Personal elements or symbolism to the bride and groom like where they met, got engaged, wedding location, vows, phrases, music lyrics, favorite flowers, favorite place etc.




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Real Advice From a Real Bride: YogaBabes

I love this segment we do every so often!  My former brides pass on advice now that they have been through it all!  A bride very near and dear to me, Jessica, shared some of her advice with me to post and I think it is so awesome.  She was working on becoming a yoga instructor during the planning process and she has passed on some fabulous poses and advice....although I don't think it's possible to look as good as she does in the pictures...gosh darn her!  Anyways, enjoy!

"In one month and one day I will have been married for one year! With our anniversary fast approaching, I have recently found myself reflecting back not only on the magical day itself but also those hectic last few weeks leading up to our wedding. The work it takes to make your wedding so special and flawless is, as all of you brides-to-be already know, tremendous. I was blessed to have found Holly early on in my planning process, so I had plenty of help along the way. Yet even with all the help in the world, planning a wedding can still at times a very arduous and emotionally draining process – am I right ladies?


Holly has asked me if I have any advice for her beautiful brides and I do. My biggest piece of advice is to make sure you take care of yourself. It is easy to forget about ‘you’ while busy taking care of day-to-day errands, taking care of the wedding contracts, and taking care of addressing all the save-the-dates (because let’s be real, your husband’s handwriting just won’t do). Do make a conscious effort to take a break from all things wedding at least once a day and do something just for yourself. This doesn't mean take a break from wedding stuff to work on other 'work' or chip away at your non-wedding to-do list. Taking a break really means taking a break! It can be journaling, knitting, reading, running, surfing, baking… anything that brings you happiness.

While I was wedding planning, I really relied on yoga as my 'break'. I found yoga to be cathartic, calming, grounding, and it left me feeling more positive. Participating in exercise of any kind is a fabulous way of effectively managing stress since exercise produces endorphins (your happy hormones). Interestingly enough, yoga made such an impact on my life, that shortly after my wedding I became a yoga teacher!

I have created a Simply Sweet and Stress-free series of asanas (poses) that you can try next time you feel like taking a break from wedding planning! I hope you enjoy the poses and my advice and they bring some peace to your very busy life. Never forget that all of your hard pre-wedding work will be worth it come your big day."
Simply Sweet and Stress-free Yoga
1.    Child’ Pose –. Bring your knees out wide, big toes to touch and sit on your heels. Lay your torso forward between your thighs. Extend arms out. Stay as long as comfortable.
2.    Puppy Pose- come onto all fours, so that your shoulders are above your wrists and your hips are above your knees. Walk your hands forward a few inches, engage your arms and keep them where they are as you gently pull your hips back and up. Maintain this pose for 15-30 seconds.
3.    Cat Cow Pose- Again start on all fours. Inhale to Cow, arch your back so your navel reaches for the ground and your tailbone and gaze reach up to the sky. Exhale to Cat, arch your back so that your tailbone points down and so does your gaze. Repeat Cat-Cow 3-5Xs.

4.    Bridge- come onto your back. Bend your knees and bring your heels right up to your bottom. Send your hips up high, tuck your shoulders under and grasp your hands under your torso. Gaze is straight up at the ceiling. Release your hands when ready to release the pose. Hold for 15-30 seconds before your slowly lower.

5.    Standing Forward Fold. Come up to standing and with a flat back slowly fold forward. When fully folded, arms can rest on the thighs, shins, or floor (but never on the knees). Stay in this stretch for 15-30 seconds and rise ever so slowly.

6.    Reclining Bound Angle Pose- Come to your back for our final pose. Bend your knees and let them fall open and bring the soles of your feet to touch. Close your eyes and focus on your breath (not on wedding planning hehe) and enjoy!




For more on how to live like a YogaBabe visit me at www.yogababes.me.

10 Bridesmaid Dress Tips

Brides almost always choose the closest women in their lives to be their bridesmaids. They’re there for you when you need someone most, they make you laugh, and they know you better than you know yourself. So you want them to look just as beautiful as you when they stand beside you at your wedding…..right? So here are some tips from The Knot to picking the best dresses!

Chris Diset Photography
  1.       Track the Trends. What’s hot now? Hemlines with a little pop of sequins for that glam effect.
  2.         Be Flexible. Why not pick the color you want and then let your maids choose their own style?
  3.         Search for Inspiration. Surf the web. Even if you don’t spot your dream dress, you may find other ideas.
  4.         Shop Early. Get your girls together to scope out silhouettes that everyone can agree on.
  5.         Make Black-Tie Optional. Floor length gowns in seersucker or chiffon fabrics feel less formal.
  6.         Ace the Accessories. Cool-toned dresses go with silver; for warm hues, try gold.
  7.         Tap into Old Hollywood. A rhinestone belt, ruffle collar and knee length hem are so Grace Kelly.
  8.         Do Your Homework. Study up on shapes that flatter all figures, like V-necks and A-lines.
  9.         Find the Right Price. Consider cost when selecting a dress.
  10.       Get a Tailor. Find affordable alterations around your area and make sure the dresses fit to a tee to ensure everyone looking their best!

Budget Ideas: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Every couple wants to save money on their wedding. But there are good ways-and bad ways. I’ve seen so many weddings where they think its better to do things on their own and it looks homemade. So if you want to cut some costs, here are some great tips from Brides magazine to how.

Invitations
Good: Printing a single card with both ceremony and reception details
Bad: Texting or emailing the invites
Flowers
Good:
·      Decorating with potted bulbs, herbs, or fresh praoduce instead of just cut stems
·      Buying flowers that are blooming locally (Helllooo no shipping!)
·      Putting your own money into the flowers that will be in the spotlight, like your bouquet and the centerpieces
·      Having each bridesmaid carry a few full-bodied blooms, like hydrangeas or chrysanthemums. This way you don’t have to spend extra money on the little flowers!
·      Flanking the altar with flowering branches like cherry or apple blossoms instead of large cut-flower arrangements
Bad:
·      Skipping centerpieces all together. Bare does NOT look beautiful
·      “Borrowing” flowers from your neighbor’s garden- or anyone’s garden in that matter
·      Using cheap stems that you don’t even like or clash with your color scheme just so you’ll have flowers everywhere
·      Asking each bridesmaid to bring her own bouquet
·      Marking the ceremony location with a bunch of balloons
Food and Drink
Good:
·      Forgoing the champagne toast and having guests clink with whatever they’re already drinking
·      For an informal wedding, serving a pasta buffet
·      Booking a site that lets you supply your own liquor (Buy by the case to save even more!)
Bad:
·      Cutting the toast
·      Doing chips, pretzels, and baby carrots and hoping that people will have shown up already eaten
·      Writing “BYOB” on the invitation
Wedding Cake
Good: Ordering a cake for just two thirds of your guest list. Some will skip dessert or leave before you cut it
Bad: Asking mom to make Jell-O molds- everyone always raved about them when you were growing up
Negotiating
Good: Asking vendors for a discount but expecting to compromise- maybe that means shortening the cocktail hour
Bad: Asking vendors to donate stuff- believe me, if you keep asking for deals, vendors aren’t going to want to give it to you!
Here are some additional tips to saving some extra cash!
  •         Trimming the guest list- If you haven’t socialized with someone in a year or more, cross them off the list. Facebook friends don’t count
  •         Serving wine, beer, and a signature cocktail, not a full bar
  •         Picking a predecorated, fully furnished site. You wont need to spring for rentals and decorative items to make it look photo ready
  •         Having a lunch reception
  •         DIYing your wedding stationary
  •         Scheduling the event during the locales off-season and/or on a quiet day. (i.e. a mountain resort not during the winter)
  •         Eloping! Just kidding.s

The "Plus One" Controversy

There's the never-ending controversy of whether or not people should be able to bring a "plus one" to weddings.  When trying to control wedding costs, the easiest thing to do is limit the guest list.  So what is the true etiquette of bringing a date?  Emily post says ....


"Spouses, fiancees/fiances, and live-in partners must be invited.  Issuing an invitation to a boyfriend or girlfriend is up to the bride and groom's discretion."


"Allowing single guests who aren't attached to significant others to bring dates is a thoughtful gesture, but one that is certainly not required and often not realistic."


And if it's good enough for Emily Post, it's good enough for me! :)  Ok, now that we have the official etiquette out of the way, let's look a little further.  A wedding is an intimate, personal event, so a friend's random date they have never met, is literally taking the place of one person they could have invited.  I think it is a wonderful gesture to invite all significant others, but do not feel the need to give "and guest" to unattached guests.  If you know your friend or cousin whomever has a significant other, call them to find out the signifiant other's name to put on the invitation.  


Whatever you both decide is best for your situation is perfectly fine.  However, my only advice is draw a line in the sand and make no exceptions!  For example, "all couples in relationships are okay, but no first dates or friends as dates."  I literally have a friend who's boyfriend was recently invited to a wedding where the couple chose who could bring their significant others and who could not!  Talk about lots of hurt feelings!!!

Alternative Wedding Locations

Your wedding is one of the most important days of your life and there's so many different ways to make it special and personal to you! The most traditional option is to have it at a hotel ballroom. However, there are many options that will create a beautiful and memorable wedding for you. Below are some ideas and alternatives to make your reception as amazing as you can!


Sports Field:
Cakes and Kisses
 Jack K Hou Photography
DomFoto.com
Ski Lodge:
 Mitchell Dyer Photography

Farm:

http://wedding-dresses.more-tips.com/

Zoo:

Furious Photography

Art Gallery:

A Bryan Photo

Botanical Garden:

Lin and Jirsa Photography
College campus
  • Most college campuses let alumni get married at the school!
Industrial loft
Private home
  • Think of close family and friends who might have gorgeous homes and will be willing to open it up to you! This is a great way to be original and save some money!
Racetrack

No matter where you decide to have your wedding, it will be beautiful but I hope these ideas help you see other ways to be original!


Franciscan Gardens, San Juan Capistrano

Okay, I just want to start out by saying how amazing

Franciscan Gardens in San Juan Capistrano

is! It is such a gorgeous venue to have any wedding at. Not only is it a beautiful place to get married, they also have amazingly delicious food because they are owned and operated by the fabulous

24 Carrots Catering

. Unlike a lot of caterers who have preset menus, they customize menus for every bride. Contact

Anne

if you have any questions at all! She’s amazing!

Check out their gorgeous pictures and their 2012 pricing sheet and a list of all that is included in their package with the site rental fee.

Amanda Doublin Photography

Left: Amanda Doublin Photography, Right: Marilyn Nakazato Photography

Amanda Doublin Photography

Kate Noelle Photography

Jessica Holley Photography

Marilyn Nakazato Photography

Marilyn Nakazato Photography

Anne Watson Photography

Amanda Doublin Photography

Jessica Holley Photography

Insure Your Wedding Ring!

Now-a-days there is insurance for everything. From our cars to our houses, we insure what is most valuable to us! So why not insure your engagement ring? Thanks to The Knot for this great article on tips to insure your most special piece of jewelry! It's easier than you think!
John Partridge Photography


What It Is:
There are a few ways to insure your engagement ring. Ring insurance can be purchased as an extension (also called a "rider") for your renters' or homeowners' policy. Renters' and homeowners' policies cover the items in your home, but only up to a certain dollar value. Expensive, special items, like engagement rings, art, and electronics are guaranteed through scheduled personal property coverage -- an insurance policy extension that covers particular items. Another option is to insure your ring through a company that specializes in jewelry insurance, which might offer more coverage than a standard homeowners' policy (replacing a lost or stolen ring rather than paying a set amount of cash, for instance).

Who Needs It Most:
Any couple with jewelry that has high material or sentimental value -- whether your wedding and engagement ring cost $500 or $50,000, an insurance policy is a way of honoring not just their financial value but what they represent. The sentiment behind your ring is priceless, but the ring itself can be replaced -- if they're insured -- in the event that something happens to them.

What to Know About How It Works:
You will need to provide your receipts, as well as an appraisal (which costs a small fee; you can get an appraisal from a certified gemologist). And remember, if you move after the wedding, make sure your "ring rider" follows you. Some couples have the ring insured at the bride's house (or her parents') before the wedding, but forget to add it to the policy for their new home when they move in together.
If you don't have a renters' or homeowners' policy, there is an alternative way to insure your ring: Certain insurance companies offer policies through jewelers on individual pieces -- ask your jeweler if they work with an insurance company to offer ring insurance. These kinds of policies can vary widely company by company (usually a jeweler will offer a policy that's underwritten by smaller company), so ask specific questions about the level of coverage provided.

Questions To Ask Before You Choose a Policy:
  • Is the ring covered if you lose it accidentally, or only if it's stolen?
  • How will the company replace the ring -- with a check? Or will they require you to purchase a replacement through a specified jeweler
  • What if it's a vintage ring or other unique piece? How will the quality and size of your diamond -- and that of a replacement if needed -- be documented?
  • Is the ring insured to full cost or a fraction of it?
  • How will you need to prove the ring vanished if you make a claim?
  • Are there any circumstances that aren't covered? (What if your ring flies off at the circus and gets trampled by elephants, for example?)

Average Cost:

The yearly cost to insure your ring is $1 to $2 for every $100 that it would cost to replace. In plain English, this means that if your ring would cost $9,000 to replace, you might expect to pay between $90 and $180 per year to insure it -- or slightly more in cities where the risk of theft is higher.

How To Get Your Cost Down:
Buy a vault or safe to keep jewelry in when it's not being worn. (You can also keep paperwork like appraisals in the safe, so you'll always know where they are if needed.)

What To Remember if You Only Remember One Thing:
When you shop for a "ring rider" policy, make sure to read the fine print: A good policy will cover every potentially ring-threatening situation from theft to damage to accidentally dropping it in the garbage disposal.

In Honor of Brooke Davis & Josh Wimberly

I had such a great time being a part of Brooke and Josh's wedding.  They both live in Arizona, so I actually planned most of the wedding with Brooke's mom, Ginny.  Every part of this wedding was a blast!  I loved every single vendor, and in case you didn't know I used to work at Franciscan Gardens, so it was nice to be back!  Enjoy some of our favorite pictures below by Chris!

The Team: {Coordinator: Simply Sweet Weddings} - {Location- Franciscan Gardens} - {Photography: Chris Diset Photography} - {Florist: Jenny B Floral Design} - {Caterer: 24 Carrots} - {Entertainment: Elevated Pulse Productions}  - {Bakery: Simply Sweet Cakery} - {Photobooth: Foto Cabina}

  

Vendor Spotlight: Elevated Pulse Productions

Ok...I absolutely love Brian Lee with Elevated Pulse Productions!  He is the perfect mix of fun and outgoing without being a cheeseball!  He is always blogging about new mixes and giving updates on music selections to the traditional choices.  Not to mention they also do really awesome lighting!  You must check out their website to see more than just the pictures we posted below!
  • Cat or Dog?  Dog….his name is Brady
  • Twilight or Harry Potter? Neither
  • Mac or PC?  Mac all the way!
  • Sweet or Salty? Spicy ;)
  • Beer or Wine? I enjoy both, but I am definitely more of a beer person. Especially in the summertime.
  • Mountains or Beach? The Beach! I moved to California to so I could see the ocean as much as possible, and be away from cold weather
  • Neat or Messy? I would say Neat, but my wife might think otherwise.
  • What is the last book you read? It was a book on how to use Logic Pro (my music production software).
  • Most embarrassing moment?  I’m not letting the cat out of the bag on this one :)
  • Favorite sports team? New England Patriots!! I grew up in New Hampshire.
  • What was the last movie you went to see? Horrible Bosses
  • Who would play you in a movie?  Hmmm tough one….maybe Jake Gyllenhaal?
  • What is your favorite drink? Nothing beats Virgil’s Black Cherry Cream Soda
  • What is in your refrigerator right now? TONS of leftover beer from a BBQ, some pasta salad, waters…gosh, we need to go grocery shopping.
  • What is your favorite place to eat? Right now, Lazy Dog Café for Sunday brunch
  • What TV reality show or game show would you go on? Family Feud
  • How many pairs of shoes do you own?  I have Dress Shoes, Chucks and flip flops….this would be more interesting if I was a girl.
  • Where did you grow up? New Hampshire
  • What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Give yourself plenty of time for the planning process, this way you get the vendors you want and avoid the added stress as the date gets close.
  • What is your best marriage advice? She’s always right ;)
  • One of your favorite wedding moments? I have seen so many amazing weddings, but the one thing that stands out in my mind the most was seeing my own gorgeous bride walking down the aisle
  • Anything else we should know? Elevated Pulse loves introducing clients to new music.  We act like a personal Pandora and provide individual recommendations based on artists and genres each client likes.  We are constantly searching for the best new music out there to stay fresh and up to date for our clients (any good DJ considers this a priority).
  • Tips:  we have several music mixes on our blog along with a series of blog posts called “Wedding Song Recommendations”.  Check back frequently for new ideas and creative suggestions from us!
  • Links to Mixes:
  • http://blog.elevatedpulsepro.com/2011/01/mid-week-mix-sessions.html 
  • http://blog.elevatedpulsepro.com/2010/11/mid-week-mix-sessions.html
  • Links to “WSR” posts:
  • http://blog.elevatedpulsepro.com/2011/06/wedding-song-recommendations-first.html 
  • http://blog.elevatedpulsepro.com/2011/06/wedding-song-recommendations-garter.html
  • http://blog.elevatedpulsepro.com/2011/03/wedding-song-recommendations.html
  • And finally, we LOVE our clients.  We seriously meet the best people in this business and feel blessed to be doing what we love every day!

Paying for Your Honeymoon

After planning a fantastic wedding, you and your spouse deserve to have some alone time on an amazing honeymoon. Whether you choose to go to Europe or an Island in the Caribbean, you want the memories to last a lifetime, not the bills. So with a little bit of planning, you can have a perfect getaway without breaking the bank. Here are some tips from Martha Stewart Magazine about how to pay for your honeymoon.

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Start Saving Early
Before you and your fiance get too carried away dreaming about romantic beaches, cozy casitas, and foreign capitals, have a heart-to-heart about where you want to go, what kinds of activities you want to enjoy, and how much you think it's going to cost- do some internet research before you sit down to talk. Ideally, you'll start planning-and saving- six months to a year before the honeymoon.
Don't forget about all the daily expenses. Tally all of your expenses, divide that number by the number of months until your wedding day, and start setting money aside each month. Some couples like to incorporate their honeymoon into their overall wedding budget, but it may be easier if you set up a separate honeymoon account!
Make the Most of Rewards Programs
It rarely pays to finance your honeymoon with credit cards, but it may make sense to apply for a credit card that earns points toward free hotel stays or upgrades when you charge wedding expenses. Look for cards with low annual fees, low interest rates, and bonus points for signing up. You can earn enough points for a couple free nights just for acquiring the card. 
If you're using airline miles, book your flight six months ahead; that's when airlines set aside rewards seats. The best available flights are most likely on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday.
Hire a Travel Professional
The honeymoon is one trip for which for which even savvy travelers may want to enlist the help of a travel agent. Some agents charge clients a flat fee or a percentage of the booking, while others are paid by the hotels or resorts to which they send business. Still, you could save money by working with an agent, particularly for an international trip where insider knowledge is key to finding deals. Good agents can steer you to off-season discounts, book the best accommodations for your budget, and give you tips for saving on everything from train fares to local cuisine. Better yet, they can help arrange for newlywed perks, such as room upgrades and complimentary gifts- like Champagne!
Be Your Own Online Agent
Determined to plan your own trip? There are dozens of websites designed to help couples find honeymoon hot spots, search for hotels, and book flights. Sign up for the FareWatcher at travelocity and get e-mail alerts when prices fall on the routes you're monitoring. At sidestep, search more than 150 travel sites simultaneously to track down the best deals. You can book luxury hotels around the world at luxurylink. There is an auction feature that is a great way to find accommodations that might otherwise be outside of your budget.
There was a time when airlines upgraded honeymooners to first or business class. This is now a rare occurrence. But many hotels still give newly married couples first-class treatment so let the hotel know it's your honeymoon when you book it! When you check in, kindly remind them. You may not score the honeymoon suite, but you might get a bigger room or an ocean view!
Register for Your Honeymoon
If travel is as important as new place settings or fine linens, create a honeymoon registry with a travel agency or directly with a resort. When registering for travel, you generally book your trip, then set up the registry. If booking with Starwood Hotels and Resorts, for example, you can register the trip on Wedding Channel; then guests go to your registry and buy you "Honey Money" to help pay for your stay. At Distinctive Honeymoons, guests can shop for specific items on your honeymoon registry such as spa treatments and dinners.


Hope some of these tips help you save some money on your first vacation as husband and wife!

Vendor Spotlight: D.Park Photography

I'm so excited to be blogging about D. Park Photography!  Drexelle interviewed me for her blog last November and took some really fun headshots for me!  We had such a fun time together. They are both such talented photographers and an even more amazing couple. They are so talented and passionate about capturing the perfect moments on your big day. Because they're best friends and husband and wife, they work great together and make whoever they're shooting feel comfortable in front of the camera. So check out these, "modern classic wedding photographers for the truly original, authentic and timeless love stories."  They won't disappoint!  

  • Cat or Dog?  We love both!  We’re actually in search of our first dog as hubby and wife.  Stay tuned!
  • Twilight or Harry Potter? Harry Potter, hands down.  We’re going to the midnight showing on the IMAX.  Though, I [Drexelle] can’t deny I love Twilight.  Read all the books.  Can’t wait for the last movie!  When pressed, David will admit he’s more Team Edward than Jacob.  Ha!
  •  Mac or PC? Mac for tasks requiring design. PC for tasks requiring organization.
  •  Sweet or Salty? Sweet!
  •  Beer or Wine? Depends on our mood but David loves great beer (he’ll actually be going to Germany for Oktoberfest), whilst I [Drexelle] prefer wine.
  • Mountains or Beach? Beach (sun, clear waves, warm weather) 
  •  Neat or Messy? Monica Geller neat.  Don’t know if that’s a good thing…
  • What is the last book you read? Purple Cow by Seth Godin [Drexelle] and How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie [David
  •   Most embarrassing moment? Ooooh, these can be painful to share. Haha!  Tons of those.
  • Favorite sports team? N/A 
  •  What was the last movie you went to see? Bridesmaids!  So funny! 
  • Who would play you in a movie?  David would love to play a warrior in an epic movie.  We’ve been watching through Lord of the Rings on blu-ray and he just loves the swords they use.  Meanwhile, I would personally love to be in a Glee movie. 
  • What is your favorite drink? David: Primitivo wine. Drexelle: Pepsi
  • What is in your refrigerator right now? An assortment of goodies from Trader Joe’s
  • What is your favorite place to eat? Our special place with the best memories: Storyteller’s Café in Grand Californian Hotel.  Place with the best food:  The Penrose Room in the Broadmoor in Colorado
  • What TV reality show or game show would you go on? I [Drexelle] was on Wheel of Fortune and that was so exciting for me.  But I would dream of being on Dancing with the Stars or American Idol. If David had a chance, he’d join Bear Grylls on a Man vs. Wild trip or try out for Ninja Warrior.
  • How many pairs of shoes do you own?  David has more!  He’s the shopper.
  • Where did you grow up?  David grew up in Anaheim Hills.  I grew up half the time in LA (‘til after the riots) and then in Garden Grove.
  • Where have you gone to school?  David and I both went to UC Irvine.
  • What is your advice to people planning a wedding?  Firstly, plan for your marriage.  The average couple spends 500 hours planning a wedding but may, at most, read one book on marriage.  Plan for your marriage.  Have the hard conversations.  Have date nights.  Invest in each other’s relationship.  Secondly, for your wedding, it’s one day you won’t get back.  You deserve the best.  Hire the best.  It will make all the difference on your wedding!  We have more tips on our Type A Bride Minute page here (includes great tips from the lovely Holly from Simply Sweets)!  Here’s also a great reference to help you out:  Fall in Love with the Right…Photographer.
  • What is your best marriage advice?  In marriage, you will learn how strong, how hard, how amazing love is.  It will be difficult.  There will be challenges.  Feelings will go up and down.   But it is one of the most incredible things on this earth: being the other half of another person.  You’ll be growing up the rest of your lives, together.  There are tons of stuff out there to help you build your marriage! Commit to building up your relationship to be stronger.  You’ll be amazed at what it will do.
  • One of your favorite wedding moments? Two moments:
    • 1)   The minute the father of the bride sees his baby girl all dressed up as a bride for the first time.
    • 2)    The minute the groom sees his gorgeous bride for the first time
    • Both moments are incredibly emotional and we feel so blessed to be able to capture them.  For me [Drexelle], they were my favorite moments at my own wedding.  Brings tears to my eyes just to remember it!
  • Anything else we should know? A little bit about us
    • We’re David and Drexelle. 
    • From best friends, high school sweethearts, to husband and wife, we were complete opposites. God amazingly brought us together, two kids who were scared of marriage but now passionate about a lifetime committed to love – the good, the bad, the crazy, the lovely. 
    • We’re not only here to capture each moment and to celebrate your incredible love story.  We’re here to inspire people like ourselves who were jaded about love through incredible imagery that celebrates love and marriage – lifelong, lasting

In Honor of Neha Soneji and Harin Contractor

I was so excited to book my first Chicago bride Neha!...and over the telephone!  So you can imagine my anticipation the first time I finally got to meet her, Harin, and her parents for our timeline meeting.  We of course had even more fun than I imagined talking about snowboarding, and other sports they enjoy.  Neha and Harin are truly some of the most genuine people I have worked with and I feel so special to have been part of their day.  I must say, I am starting to become quite attached to Indian weddings!  All of the bright colors and energy makes "work" even more fun!  I hope you enjoy some of their pictures below....they are absolutely stunning!
The Team: {Coordinator: Simply Sweet Weddings} - {Location- Hilton Waterfront Resort} - {Photography: David Crane Photography} - {Videographer: New Classic Films} - {Caterer: Jay Bharat} - {Make up/Hair/Mhendi: My Fair Bride} - {Entertainment: Kumba Entertainment} - {Rentals: Elegant Chiavari Chairs} - {Bakery: Simply Sweet Bakery}







  

Vendor Spotlight: Fusion Linens

Such an important part of your wedding is your reception! Obviously! This is where you and your guests will be spending the most of your time, so you want to make sure the room is absolutely gorgeous! One way to do that is to use specialty linens and napkins, upgrade your chiavaris, and my personal favorite...a white dance floor. Fusion Linens has some of the most amazing table wear to make your reception room pop. Feel free to contact Danielle Spraker if you have any questions! Check out some of her tips to picking linens as well as some pictures of their fabulous table wear below!

  • Cat or Dog?  Dog
  • Twilight or Harry Potter? Harry Potter
  • Mac or PC? PC
  • Sweet or Salty? Sweet
  • Beer or Wine? Beer
  • Mountains or Beach? Mountains
  • Neat or Messy? Messy :)
  • What is the last book you read? The Bible
  • Most embarrassing moment?  Sent a text message to the person the text was about!
  • Favorite sports team? Green Bay Packers
  • What was the last movie you went to see? Pirates of the Caribbean on Stranger Tides
  • Who would play you in a movie? Emma Stone
  • What is your favorite drink? Diet Coke
  • What is in your refrigerator right now?  Home-made ice cream mix
  • What is your favorite place to eat?  Gabbi's
  • What TV reality show or game show would you go on? Jeopardy
  • How many pairs of shoes do you own?  Oh man, over 10
  • Where did you grow up? Orange, CA
  • Where have you gone to school? Orange, CA and Santa Rosa, CA
  • What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Don't take the fun out of the whole experience by stressing on the details. If you have many moving parts that need to come together then definitely invest in hiring a wedding coordinator. Keep your eyes on the prize, remember that this is only a party commemorating your lasting union to the love of your life.
  • What is your best marriage advice? As a newlywed my best advice is choose your battles wisely, you have to live with this person:)! Treat your spouse with the respect that you want to receive and say "I love you!" every night before bed
  • One of your favorite wedding moments?  My father gave a speech that brought me to tears, that was by far one of my favorite moments in my life..
  • Anything else we should know? Weddings can be overwhelming and turn the sweetest person into a stress case. Try and enjoy the experience as it will all be over before you know it. Input can be a big help but don't be afriad to put your foot down if your ideas are being over shadowed.
The process of selecting linens is made easier when a client has a good idea of what feel he or she wants to create in the room. For example, a bride that wants a fresh clean feel would be well suited to a white linen. The centerpiece plays a large role in design and décor so having an idea of what the florals will look like will help me recommend the best linens to create the desired table scape. When choosing a linen company it is important to be aware of what services the venue will provide and what services are left up to the clients. A bride getting married at a hotel may not need a linen company to set up her linens, whereas a bride getting married at a golf club may need a linen company that can offers the labor to handle the setup.  Linens are a great finishing touch to any event, but they should not be the main focal point.

What's the Right Print for Your Invitations?

One of the first things guests will see from your wedding are your invitations! So it is extremely important for them to reflect you and your wedding. There are many different elements that go into the invitations and one of them is what the right print is. Some options include letterpress, laser, thermography, engraving, and so much more. Beau-coup created an amazing outline of a bunch of different ways you can print your invitations to tell people about your special day! I've put some explanations of what each one is and what is less expensive than others. Also, here are tips from The Knot to make the perfect invites!
Laser $
Wedding Paper Divas
These prints produce remarkable results based on digitally-rendered files. The native digital file is sent directly to the digital printer, losing no image quality. Colors can cover the entire rainbow spectrum, and are as bold, vibrant and as comparable to color offset printing. The printing appears as a flat image. Recommendations: This type of printing is most commonly used for smooth or lightly textured papers. It is the most economical way of printing (next to printing yourself on your own inkjet or laser printer) and a perfect solution for those wanting professional print quality at reasonable prices.
Letterpress $$
Letterpress Wedding Invitations
This type of printing utilizes a movable type machine. The inked raised type is stamped onto the paper. The various typestyles on the market today are not available with this printing process, since the characters are preset and determined based on the machine itself. It's not easy to find printers that will provide this type of printing but if you find one that will, the effect will look best on handmade paper. Recommendations: This process is used most commonly for invitations that have unusual textured paper and is much more expensive than most other types of printing. 
Thermography $$$
Invitation Diary by Event House
No ink is involved with this method. Metal plates that are etched with letters are stamped into paper so what is left behind is the imprint of the letter. You'll be able to see this printing type on the borders of many invitations, addresses, and monograms. Recommendations: Embossing is best when used to accent an invitation, such as with borders, monograms, motifs, and the return address on the envelope flap. Thermography is an added cost, but well worth the visual 3-Dimensional effect it creates. You will only want to order embossing if you have 3-4 weeks to wait for your invitations to be printed.
Engraving $$$$
Louella Court
This process is the oldest form of printing. It begins by etching the design and/or text into a copper plate from a negative. The paper is placed on the press face down above the inked plate. It is then printed by pressure coming down on the back of the sheet while the front of the sheet meets with the plate. This "sandwich" effect creates the raised lettering on the front and bruising on the back of the printed paper, which are both classic features of engraving. Typically you will receive the actual copper plate used for printing as a keepsake. Black ink is usually the best color for this style. Recommendations: This type of printing is quite a bit more expensive than thermography, so engraving is usually done for ultra-formal wedding invites, formal parties in general, or when there are few budgetary constraints. Engraving is also suitable for events with a large guest list since it becomes more cost effective in larger quantities. You will also have to allow for longer printing times, up to 4 weeks with some of brands.

Vendor Spotlight: Green Leaf Designs

Shelby Nolan from Greenleaf Designs is unbelievably talented!  She's based in Huntington Beach and has a super cute style that I absolutely love, hence why I am so excited to highlight her on the blog this week.  Enjoy her Q&A and awesome pictures below!  Be sure to check out her website to see more of her work here!


• Cat or Dog?  Cat
• Twilight or Harry Potter? Neither right now it's the Karen Moning Fever series
• Mac or PC? Mac
• Sweet or Salty? Salty
• Beer or Wine? Beer
• Mountains or Beach? mm thats hard, I guess beach
• Neat or Messy? Neat
• What is the last book you read? Right now I'm reading The Help
• Most embarrassing moment?  I would never tell  ;)
• Favorite sports team? Denver Broncos
• What was the last movie you went to see? It's been so long I cant even remember.
• Who would play you in a movie? Charlize Theron
• What is your favorite drink? Green Iced tea from subway
 What is in your refrigerator right now?  Fruit, yogurt, ground beef, juice boxes and GO-gurt.
 What is your favorite place to eat?  The polish village cafe in Hamtramck, Michigan.  SO fun and YUMMY!
• What TV reality show or game show would you go on? I don't know, i really don't watch to much reality TV. I do wish they would do a show on flowers, like a chopped version for florist.
• How many pairs of shoes do you own?  about 20
• Where did you grow up? Huntington Beach
• Where have you gone to school? Well other then the basics, I did a little time at Orange Coast Collage and received my floral certificate from Golden west collage.
• What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Bring your personality in the wedding! And have fun with it! Such as signature drinks, naming your tables after memorable dates, place you go to.  Have a favor or dessert bar with family treats along with which side of the family it came from and maybe a little story with it.
• What is your best marriage advice? A marriage is not 50/50, it's 100/100! Give everything you have and make each other laugh! Marriage has it's ups and downs, don't give in or up during the downs, because the ups are amazing and will make your marriage that much stronger!
• One of your favorite wedding moments?  Seeing a bride cry from happiness!

• Anything else we should know? Have fun with planning your wedding, don't get overloaded and overwhelmed.  Break it down one step at a time.  

Vendor Spotlight: Tiffany Monday

I seriously love Tiffany so much!  She is one of the most genuine people in the industry and I get so excited when I get the chance to work with her!!  She has so much passion for what she does and a ton of experience. Hair and makeup is one of the most important elements of you wedding so let Tiffany Monday and her team help you feel beautiful all day long! Check out more about Tiffany below, along with photos of her gorgeous work, and some beauty tips for your wedding!
• Cat or Dog? Neither- I am too busy for pets! Eek!
• Twilight or Harry Potter? Twilight! Edward is so HOT!
• Mac or PC? Mac…did you even have to ask…
• Sweet or Salty? Sweet :)
• Beer or Wine? Wine
• Mountains or Beach? BEACH!!!!
• Neat or Messy? Neat…I am a type A for sure!
• What is the last book you read? The Glass Castle by Jennet Walls
• Most embarrassing moment? My pants fell down in a Sign Language college class!!! I was MORTIFIED!
• Favorite sports team? Sacramento Kings (Basketball)
• What was the last movie you went to see? Bridesmaids :)
• Who would play you in a movie? Charlize Theron
• What is your favorite drink? Iced Tea
• What is in your refrigerator right now? Nothing! On a Diet!
• What is your favorite place to eat? Native Foods in OC
• What TV reality show or game show would you go on? Wedding day makeover on TLC
• How many pairs of shoes do you own? 100 +
• Where did you grow up? Rocklin CA (30 outside of Sacramento) cowtown! Moo!
• Where have you gone to school? Rocklin High School, Sierra College, Sac State, Paul Mitchell in Costa Mesa.
• What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Take it one day at a time, and hire Tiffany Monday for all of you Beauty needs!
• What is your best marriage advice? Dont sweat the small stuff, and communication is key!
• One of your favorite wedding moments? At my own wedding…My cake fell over in front of all my guests! OMG!

• Anything else we should know? Simply Sweet Weddings ROCK!!!  

R: Tim Otto

Tim Otto
Emp Studios
L: Emp Studios R: Braedon Photography

Here are some of her great beauty tips!

Beauty Tip #1 
Pictures really do speak 1,000 words! 
Communicating with your stylist/makeup artist is key to getting the bridal look you want! Always bring photos to the trial and be prepared to try and describe what you want in detail.


Beauty Tip#2
Bring out the very best in you!
When you are choosing pictures of hair and makeup looks, consider bringing photos that have similar  face shape and coloring. Your beauty goal for your wedding day should be to bring out the very best features you have naturally rather than trying to look like a movie star that looks nothing like you! 


Beauty Tip #3
Long Lasting Beauty
Airbrush makeup not only looks great, but lasts all day as well! When looking for makeup artists always ask what brands they use, and if they offer airbrush. You want your makeup to last all day, so you can be picture perfect for you own red carpet occasion! 
Setting your hair in rollers and using a light hair spray (I love Kenra) will help your luscious locks hold all day long! You should set for at least one hour, and always apply heat and let cool. I also always prefer that the client does not wash their hair the day of the event, so the hair has natural oils to hold the style!
Hair Extensions:
Do you want to feel red carpet ready on your wedding day? Hair extensions are a great way to dress up your look, while still looking very natural. We customize in blending, coloring and applying clip-in extensions so your hair looks and feels fuller, longer and sexier for any event. The hair extensions we use are made from the finest 100% pure remy human hair available. At your trial we can color match your hair to get the perfect shade and length that will complement your features for your big event! 

Caring for Your Wedding Dress

Every girl dreams about their wedding dress ever since they were young. So taking care of the most special dress of your life is very important! You've finally found the dress of your dreams and you'll want it to look as pristine for your walk down the aisle as the day you bought it. Here are some tips on how to prep your dress, keep it looking perfect the day of, and maintaining the beauty for years to come. After all, future generations may someday want to wear it :) Thanks to Martha Stewart Magazine for this great article!

L: Epic Imagery; R: Scott Nelson Photography
Pre-Wedding Prep
Getting your gown ready for its debut will likely involve making a few changes. For a new dress, changes might mean alterations in fit. However, a dress purchased at a sample sale might require cleaning or repairs. If you're wearing a vintage gown, the world could be more extensive, involving fabric replacement, restyling, and refitting. Regardless. allow enough time for completion: about three to six months for alterations, eight months for major restoration.
Ideally, you should bring your dress home a day or two before the wedding. But if you need to store it for longer, you'll want to take some precautions. If storing it for les than six months, hang it on a padded hanger in a closet away from direct sunlight, leaving several feet of space on either side. To shield fabric from dust, cover it with a material that allows for ventilation, such as muslin or a cotton sheet. Don't use plastic! Because it's a nonporous, it can trap condensation, causing mildew and mustiness- gross!
If you have to store it for more than six months, don't hang it but rather package the dress in an acid-free cardboard box.

Removing Wrinkles
When you arrive with your dress, be sure to put it on a padded hanger right away. You may find that many of the folds will come right out, but chances are the gown will probably need to be steamed a little. 
Professional steaming will produce the best results; usually, the bridal salon where you purchased your gown or the place that did your alterations will provide this service. But if you've traveled, this likely isn't a viable option. A good alternative is to create your own steam room. Cover a bathroom floor with towels and run a very hot shower, allowing the room to fill with steam. Turn the water off, then hang the dress on the back of the bathroom door. Next, wrap your arm in a dry, white towel and run it down the length of the gown, smoothing out any wrinkles. This method is much less likely to leave water spots or iron impressions than a home steamer or iron.

Managing Mishaps
Keeping your dress looking its best all day requires a little bit of care and forethought. Use caution when dressing. You should cover your face -- a gauzy scarf works well -- to protect the gown's fabric from your makeup. 
Even with vigilance, spills and slip-ups do happen. To combat little emergencies, Steven Saidman, president of Imperial Gown Preservation and Restoration in Fairfax, Virginia, recommends every bride keep a stain kit on hand stocked with rubbing alcohol and clean white cloths. To remove a stain, apply the rubbing alcohol (for dry stains such as grease) or tepid water (for wet stains like wine) to the cloth, and gently blot the spot from its outer edges in; do not work from the middle of the stain out, since this will spread the mark. To dry the dress, use a hair dryer on its lowest setting from at least six inches away. It's also a good idea to have a needle, thread, and double-sided tape handy for fixing hems that have come undone.

Safe Keeping for Years to Come
The final step in protecting the memories and investment your bridal wear represents is to have the gown preserved, meaning both properly cleaned and carefully boxed. If your gown has just the usual grass stains and smudges on the hem, take it to be cleaned within a month of the wedding; if there's a more serious stain, like red wine or juice, bring it in within a few days.
Because very few wedding dresses are suited to traditional dry-cleaning processes, you'll want to find a company that specializes in these gowns. If you can't find one in your area, search online. Make sure the company you select sees and inspects the dress before quoting you a price, says Steven Saidman, president of Imperial Gown Preservation and Restoration in Fairfax, Virginia (some nationally recognized businesses offer free shipping and estimates). Avoid cleaners that offer a set price for all dresses. Different fabrics and embellishments require special cleaning methods. Some dresses are more labor-intensive to clean and will cost more than others; in general, you can expect to pay several hundred dollars for the entire cleaning and preservation process. Just be sure to read the warranty carefully and steer clear of cleaners that void their guarantee if you open the box in which your dress is stored. Saidman advises looking for a company that will stand by its work for years, since many invisible stains, such as perspiration, champagne, and sugar, sometimes won't show up on the gown for four to six years if they're missed during the cleaning.
After cleaning, the dress should be stuffed with acid-free tissue paper and placed in an acid-free corrugated cardboard box. Once home, store the box in a climate-controlled area of the house, such as under the bed or in a bedroom closet; never keep it in the basement or attic, which typically experience the greatest fluctuations in temperature and humidity. The end result of all this planning and care? Decades from now, your dress should look as beautiful as it did on your wedding day.

Vendor Spotlight: Troy Grover Photographers

Since I've been blogging so much about yummy food, I think its time to talk about one of my favorite photography duos, Troy and Aimee Grover. They are the cutest husband and wife team with such amazing talent! Every time I see them they are so fun to be around and make me feel so happy to know there are people like them in the industry.  They make working fun, and they are able to let their subjects feel relaxed and comfortable....including myself when Troy did my headshots last year!  Every moment they capture is effortlessly beautiful. Each photo is unique and the passion they have for what they do is evident in every picture. Make sure to check out their website to see their amazing work for yourself!!

  • Cat or Dog? Troy: Dog; Aimee: Doggie
  • Twilight or Harry Potter? Troy: Twilight; Aimee: Twilight
  • Mac or PC? Troy: Mac; Aimee: Mac
  • Sweet or Salty? Troy: Sweet; Aimee: Sweet- Chocolate lover!
  • Beer or Wine? Troy: Beer- Blue Moon; Aimee: Wine, sweet wine
  • Mountains or Beach? Troy: Beach; Aimee: Beach, a warm one
  • Neat or Messy? Troy: A very strategic messy; Aimee: Neat
  • What is the last book you read? Troy: Rework; Aimee: Rework
  • Most embarrassing moment? Troy: In a high school basketball game, I went up for a dunk, missed it, and then got a T for hanging on the rim. Then my coach turned all Bobby Knight on me.; Aimee: Singing a solo at church when I was little and freezing on stage when I couldn't remember the words.
  • Favorite sports team?Troy: LAKERS!!!; Aimee: Lakers
  • What was the last movie you went to see? Troy: True Grit; Aimee: Little Fockers
  • Who would play you in a movie? Troy: Will Ferrell in Elf! Smiling's my favorite; Aimee: Kate Winslet in The Holiday.
  • What is your favorite drink? Troy: White Chocolate Mocha non-fat; Aimee: Coffe with Coffee Mate Coconut Cream
  • What is in your refrigerator right now? Troy: Turkey, milk, eggs, cheese, grape juice, frozen dinners, chicken; Aimee: Dito
  • What is your favorite place to eat? Troy: Wood Ranch- best beef ribs ever!; Aimee: Urban Thai
  • What TV reality show or game show would you go on? Troy: I want to be on the Biggest Loser, but that involves me gaining a lot of weight so I might have to think about it; Aimee: Amazing Race!
  • How many pairs of shoes do you own? Troy: 6; Aimee: More than I need
  • Where did you grow up? Troy: Omaha, Nebraska...the good life!; Aimee: My younger years were spent in Huntington Beach then my family moved up to Washington for the dreaded Jr. High years. I made my way back to sunny California for college.
  • Where have you gone to school? Troy: Cal State Fullerton; Aimee: Biola
  • What is your advice to people planning a wedding? Troy: Hire a planner;) ; Aimee: Hire vendors that you really mesh with.
  • What is your best marriage advice? Troy: Love never fails...people fail. Don't ever give up! ; Aimee: You can never say, "I Love You," enough.
  • One of your favorite wedding moments? Troy: I love the best man speech because you never know what to expect. ; Aimee: When the bride and her dad see each other for the first time.
  • Anything else we should know? Troy: We just got a puppy! And with that we won't be having kids for a while ; Aimee: I love coffee treats!

Confetti Lab at The Party Pantry

If you like planning even the smallest of parties for your friends, you need to check out Confetti Lab on June 23 at The Party Pantry!!  My friend Brittany Shanks from Spruce PR has sent over all the fun details so check out more below...  If I didn't already have a wedding, I would for sure be going to check out some fun products and ideas!
Confetti Lab will be held June 23rd from 6pm to 9pm and is a party planning event where newly married brides, ladies planning a shower or anyone wanting exposure to great party products, tips and diy projects can get just that! There will be local (LA/OC) party supply vendors showing off their products, a taco truck, several sweets vendors, and diy stations.